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Mark 8:34-37 - FOLLOWING JESUS.

Mark 8:34-37 (NLT) Then, calling the crowd 
to join his disciples, he said, If any of 
you wants to be my follower, you must turn from 
your selfish ways, take up your cross, and follow 
me. 35 If you try to hang on to your life, you 
will lose it. But if you give up your life for my 
sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will 
save it. 36 And what do you benefit if you gain 
the whole world but lose your own soul? 37 Is 
anything worth more than your soul? 

INTRODUCTION

Jesus paradoxes are statements that seem 
self-contradictory and opposed to common sense, yet express 
profound truths. [College Press NIV Commentary] 

WORD STUDY

   DENY SELF

      Cease to make self the object of his 
life. [NIV SB] 

      Requires a total commitment to turn 
from selfish ways (Mark 8:34-35). [One  
      Year NLT SB]

      Self-denial is nothing more or less 
than choosing Gods will when that  
      will conflicts with what some part of 
ourselves wants to do. [Victor Bible  
      Background Commentary]

      Without denying our self worth, Jesus 
asks us to deny our self-  
      centeredness so that his priorities 
become ours. [Quest SB]  

      Deny oneself does not mean to hate 
oneself or to go without something, but  
      to give full control of their life to 
Christ. [Passages Of Life SB] 

   TAKE UP YOUR CROSS

      Taking up one's cross is a metaphor 
for giving up one's life to follow  
      Jesus. [One Year NLT SB]

   FOLLOWING JESUS

      Is staying close to Him, living in 
intimate daily relationship, [Victor  
      Teachers Commentary]

      Christ calls us to follow Him, 
regardless of the cost, and He has never  
      promised that our path will always be 
smooth.... But in the midst of the  
      suffering, trials and temptations, He 
will provide His peace, joy and  
      fellowship.... In the midst of every 
situation of life He can give an  
      inner calm and strength that you could 
never imagine apart from Him.   
      Billy Graham [Time With God SB]

COMMENTARY PEARLS

Time Does Tell
   A while ago, I ran into a guy that I once 
hung out with in school. I hadn't seen him in 
about twenty-five years. He had called to say that 
he was coming to hear me speak, so we arranged 
to meet beforehand. 
   As we talked, he told me he had been 
married twice and was presently divorced. Then he 
said, "I basically drank my marriages away." He 
went on to explain that he had fallen prey to 
alcoholism and had never gotten free of it. It had 
ruined his life. 
   I told him, "You know, in the Bible, God 
says, 'You will seek Me and find Me......' "You 
can quote your book, and I'll quote mine," he 
said. "I'm in fellowship too - I'm in a 
twelve-step program." We used to hang out and party 
together, but although I left that lifestyle at age 
seventeen, he never did. As I look at the course his 
life has taken and the course my life has taken, 
it's clear who really gave up the most. 
   There might be times as a Christian when 
you look at unbelievers and think, I don't know. 
Maybe they're having the good time, and I'm not. 
It might look as though they are having fun 
today, but there is a price for sin. You will reap 
what you sow. 
   If you live for Christ, if you determine 
to do things God's way, you won't regret it. 
You won't find happiness or fulfillment through 
sex, drugs, or drinking. You won't find it 
through relationships, success, possessions, or 
accomplishments. YOU WILL FIND HAPPINESS AND FULFILLMENT BY 
WALKING IN YOUR CREATOR'S TRUE PURPOSE FOR YOUR 
LIFE: A LIVING, DYNAMIC RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD 
THROUGH JESUS CHRIST. [Every Day with Jesus by Greg 
Laurie] 

Chasing Happiness
   We live in a selfie culture. In fact, 
people have literally died by trying to capture the 
ultimate selfie. We want to look good and project an 
image of having it all together. Were a 
self-obsessed society. 
   Interestingly, the Bible says that 
narcissism will be one of the signs of the last days: 
In the last days there will be very difficult 
times. For people will love only themselves and 
their money. They will be boastful and proud, 
scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and 
ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred (2 
Timothy 3:1-2 NLT). 
   Isnt that an accurate description of 
today? 
   However, selfish people are unhappy 
people. Studies have confirmed this. We actually get 
a momentary burst of what we might call 
temporary happiness when we do something selfish. 
   One expert pointed out that selfish acts 
bring us happiness, but only for short-term 
periods of time. Then our selfish happiness fades 
quickly and ultimately drives us to more selfish 
behavior. 
   On the other hand, selfless acts bring 
happiness. We know this from experience after we do 
something for someone else. 
   In contrast to our narcissistic culture, 
Jesus said, If you try to hang on to your life, 
you will lose it. But if you give up your life 
for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, 
you will save it (Mark 8:35 NLT). 
   Jesus is effectively saying, If you 
get your priorities in order and deny yourself 
instead of loving yourself and being obsessed with 
yourself, you will find fulfillment in life. 
   Theres Nothing Wrong With Wanting To 
Be Happy. In Fact, Jesus Is Really Telling Us 
How To Be Happy. But It Isnt By Chasing 
Happiness. 
   SO WE WONT FIND HAPPINESS BY PURSUING 
IT. RATHER, WELL FIND IT BY PUTTING GOD FIRST 
IN OUR LIVES AND FOLLOWING HIM. [Greg Laurie 
from Harvest Ministries; 
https://www.harvestdaily.com] 

If You Want to Follow Jesus
   We adorn our churches with crosses, use 
them as fashion accessories, and even get into 
lawsuits over where we can display them. But I think 
our society has a lot of misconceptions about 
the cross today. 
   In the first century, the cross was a 
repulsive symbol. It was an incredibly horrible way to 
die. The Romans didnt invent crucifixion, but 
they perfected it, so to speak. And they saved 
crucifixion for the worst of criminals. 
   If you saw someone surrounded by Roman 
soldiers and carrying a cross, you knew that person 
was about to die a horrible, painful, torturous 
death. 
   Yet Jesus said, Whoever desires to 
come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up 
his cross, and follow Me. For whoever desires to 
save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his 
life for My sake and the gospels will save 
it (Mark 8:34-35 NKJV). 
   These words of Jesus to His first-century 
disciples still ring true for His followers today. But 
what does it mean to take up the cross and follow 
Him? 
   Jesus began by saying, Whoever desires 
to come after Me, let him deny himself. The 
word deny means to say no to yourself. It means 
to put Gods will above your own. 
   What it doesnt mean is enduring 
whatever issue or difficulty you may have. That 
isnt what it means to bear the cross. 
   TO BEAR THE CROSS MEANS ONE THING: DENY 
YOURSELF AND PUT GOD FIRST. 
   Ive been a Christian for 50 years, so 
Ive seen a lot of things. As time passes, Im 
not so much impressed by charisma as I am by 
character and longevity. Im impressed by a 
Christian who weathers the storms of life and 
continues to give glory to God because thats what 
following Jesus is all about. [Greg Laurie from 
Harvest Ministries; https://www.harvestdaily.com] 

   The Bible calls us to take up our cross 
daily and follow Jesus (Mark 8:34). But what does 
that really mean? How do we do that? Does it mean 
caring for a chronically ill family member, or 
maybe putting up with a melancholy spouse who 
doesn't communicate, or living paycheck to paycheck. 
It may mean some of those things, but it's also 
something more. Since Jesus died for our sins on the 
cross, then taking up our cross means dying to 
those same sins. Giving them up. Casting them 
aside. That's what it means when Paul in today's 
Scripture reading tells us to become like Jesus in His 
death. A cross is an instrument of death, and when 
we take it up daily, we learn how to die to 
ourselves, to our selfish wants and wishes. But take 
heart! The cross also means life. Not just life 
eternal, but joy and peace and power in the very 
midst of today's hardships and worries. 
   Lord Jesus, I'm so glad You spoke about 
taking up my cross daily. Each new day gives me a 
fresh opportunity to do that. Maybe I didn't pick 
it up yesterday or the day before, but I can 
pick it up today. Today, I will put You first. 
Today, I will place Your desires before mine. [A 
Spectacle of Glory by Joni Eareckson Tada and Larry 
Libby re Philippians 3:7-11] 

COMMENTARY

   A follower is never the one in control. 
It is the leader who determines where to go, 
how to get there, when to leave, and when to 
arrive. Jesus describes what his leadership means 
for his followers. Implicit in his description 
is the promise that Jesus will lead us. It is 
our choice, however, to follow his lead.  
   Jesus doesn't really promote his 
leadership by advertising its benefits either. Rather, 
he's mostly warning the crowd about the costs of 
following him. He's not trying to deceive them into 
following him. He wants them to know what they're in 
for.  
   He does tell them they will save their 
lives, but only "save" them, not "get the VIP 
treatment" -  and only after somehow first giving up 
their lives.  
   Control and privilege are two things we 
must give up to follow Jesus. They are two things 
we must be giving up constantly - even 
repeatedly. These two things precede following Jesus. 
"Turn from your selfish ways, take up your cross, 
and follow me" (Mark 8:34). Hardly a day will go 
by that we won't need to give up our desires 
for control and privilege. Reaffirm with God 
your choice to follow him today. [One Year NLT SB 
re Mark 8:34, 35] 

What Does It Mean To Be A Follower Of Jesus?
   One of the core purposes of Mark's Gospel 
is to help his readers understand and accept 
the call to take up their cross and follow 
Jesus. This call is addressed not only to those who 
would be Jesus' apostles but to all who desired to 
follow him (Mark 8:34). For some, the call to 
discipleship is very hard, but God provides grace (Mark 
10:24-27). Others find it easy to respond to Jesus' 
call (Mark 2:14-15).  
   For everyone, following Jesus requires a 
total commitment to turn from selfish ways (Mark 
8:34-35). Taking up one's cross is a metaphor for 
giving up one's life to follow Jesus even to death, 
as illustrated by Jesus' crucifixion. For 
example, Peter, Andrew, James, and John left their 
homes and their sources of income to follow Jesus. 
For a rich man, turning from his selfish ways 
required selling all he had and giving the proceeds 
to the poor. Following Jesus also means being 
identified with him without being ashamed, and being 
faithful to Jesus and his teachings (Mark 8:38). It 
requires removing anything that would interfere with 
following Jesus, regardless of how painful doing so 
might be (Mark 9:43-48). It requires entrusting 
one's life entirely to Jesus (Mark 5:34) and 
repenting of sin (Mark 6:12). It even requires putting 
loyalty to Jesus above loyalty to one's own father 
and mother (Matthew 10:37). Jesus explicitly 
commanded his disciples to proclaim his message 
(Matthew 28:18-20). Jesus and the apostles, through 
their teaching and example, call Jesus' followers 
to proclaim the Good News wherever they may be 
(see Mark 4:20; Romans 10:14-15; Colossians 
1:23).  
   Alongside Jesus' demands for discipleship 
are the rewards of following Jesus. Those who 
follow Jesus are promised entrance into the Kingdom 
of God. They receive his forgiveness for their 
sins, and they become members of the family of 
God. They are saved from judgment and obtain 
eternal life. [One Year NLT SB re Mark 3] 

PRACTICAL APPLICATION

   I designed you to live in union with Me. 
This union does not negate who you are; it 
actually makes you more fully yourself. When you try 
to live independently of Me, you experience 
emptiness and dissatisfaction. You may gain the whole 
world and yet lose everything that really counts. 
 
   Find fulfillment through living close to 
Me, yielding to My purposes for you. Though I 
may lead you along paths that feel alien to you, 
trust that I know what I am doing. If you follow 
Me wholeheartedly, you will discover facets of 
yourself that were previously hidden. I know you 
intimately-far better than you know yourself. In union with 
Me, you are complete. In closeness to Me, you 
are transformed more and more into the one I 
designed you to be. (Mark 8:36; Psalm 139:13-16; 2 
Corinthians 3:17-18) [Jesus Calling by Sarah Young] 

LINKS FOR FURTHER STUDY ON THIS TOPIC

Mark 8:34 - Want To Follow Jesus?

http://www.abible.com/devotions/2021/20210611-1113.html 

Luke 9:23 - FOLLOWING JESUS.

http://www.abible.com/devotions/2021/20210410-0922.html  

Matthew 10:39 - Living for Jesus or for Self?

http://www.abible.com/devotions/2020/20200202-0944.html  

YOUR COMMENTS

If anyone has a paraphrase, commentary or 
testimony on this passage of Scripture, either 
personal or otherwise, I would be interested in 
hearing from you.  Thanks in advance and let's keep 
uplifting Jesus that all might be drawn to Him. Fred 
Gibbs  

LINKS WORTH CHECKING OUT

Most Important Decision in Life: 
http://www.youtube.com/embed/WGnEuGwvXqU?rel=0 

Steps to Peace by Billy Graham: 
https://stepstopeace.org/ 

A Man without Equal by Bill Bright: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiVa7UoruIo 

Seeking God Made Real: 
http://vimeo.com/31489782 

Prayer Made Real: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tc8VdMV26VE 

Importance of Choice: 
http://creationhealth.com/CREATION-Health/Choice [click on video]  

Medical Seminar on Healthful Living by David 
DeRose, MD, MPH: 
https://www.smartlifestyletv.com/lifestart 

LINKS FOR BIBLE STUDIES 

Lifting Up Jesus Bible Studies: 
http://www.liftingupjesus.net/ 

Amazing Facts Bible Studies: 
http://www.amazingfacts.org/bible-study/bible-study-guides.aspx  

Hope Awakens Bible Study Guides: 
https://www.hopeawakens.study/lesson-header;id=2 

Glow Tract Video Bible Studies: 
http://www.bibleresearch.info/ 

LINKS FOR BIBLE PROPHECY SEMINARS

Panorama of Prophecy with Pastor Doug 
Batchelor: https://www.panoramaofprophecy.com/  

Islam and Christianity in Prophecy, The 
Third and Final Conflict by Tim Roosenberg: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHSJB-fuHLU&list=PLWhQIHGTHlkaGg5Cwe3NDzWtFX8vNSpsE 

Unlocking Bible Prophecies by Cami Oetman of 
Adventist World Radio: https://www.awr.org/bible 

Hope Awakens by John Bradshaw of IIW: 
https://itiswritten.tv/programs/hope-awakens 

Prophecies Decoded by Pastor Ron Clouzet: 
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1A435C5373550657